women and men in science etc

[Neo Martinez]

	One voice we haven't heard from on this thread is that of women
who have found partners/husbands/fathers/nannies that do *most* of the
child rearing work.  Men often appear to be comfortable parenting with a
person that is less professionally ambitious and very supportive.  Do
scientifically ambitious women who want children ever find themselves a
less professionally ambitious partner that supports the women's career? 
Seems to me like a great way to deal with kids and a career but does this
society make it impossible? 
		-neo

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Neo D. Martinez                
email ndmartinez at ucdavis.edu
Research Fellow     
Bodega Marine Laboratory
University of California, Davis
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