aloisia schmid (a-schmi at uiuc.edu) wrote:
: > : And, I agree with Julia, there is a piquant irony to see that it's Mr
: > : Chan's note sparking a return to our civil group's activity. :-)
: >
: >
: >
: > Well am I welcome back or not, I do have my own opinion and speak my own
: > mind. Yes I think idependently, is that a crime????
: > If you feel you do not welcome a man who say what he believes then I will
: > make no further contribution here, is that so.
: >
: >
: >
: > Wah.
: AHA! IT IS him! I am sure we were ALL wondering, and now we know! There
: is only one Mr. Wah Chan in the women-in-bio newsgroup!
: As far as I am concerned, you may contribute all you like Mr. Chan. But
: just know that when you contribute something offensive, people WILL take
: offense and will, in all liklihood, call you on it. As I recall, this
: was the problem the last time I was participating. You were flooding the
: group with outrage at being yelled at for your offensive opinions. So I
: would say, " By all means, contribute, Mr. Chan, but when you get
: reprimanded for something by more than one person, assume you were
: offensive (even if you refuse to accept that you could be wrong!) and do
: not make matters worse by fanning the flames with yet more outrageous and
: insulting remarks!" If you make that your plan of action, I think we'd
: welcome your perspective. If you do not make that your plan of action, it
: gets to be too tiring to have to read this stuff and people drop out
: because no one wants to have to wade through it to get to the good stuff
: contributed by other people. And then YOU wind up having to ask, "where
: IS everybody?"
: At least that's my opinion.....
Alice,
I do not mind people criticising my or anyone else's opinion
wether it is popular with this group or not it just that when critism
becomes directly personal that I oppose to. If you can recall I NEVER
made any personal attack on anyone just staying with what I believed
and I feel some of the hate mails I had receieved was by some members here
resorted to "name calling" which I find rather childish from these women of
science that I wonder if I had joined "rec.alt.hate" newsgroup.
By all means criticise any of my comment you disagree ( that is your right)
but not me personally, how does anyone knows how to hate the other person
without ever knowing him or her.
Wah.
: Alice Schmid
